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Post by KatieMae on Oct 5, 2004 14:29:09 GMT -5
How would you react? I ask because I was thinking about a friend of mine today. He was gay and his parents found out when they snooped through his diary. He had a great relationship with them until then. They took him outside and burned his diary right in front of him Of course someday I would love to help plan Dillons wedding to a woman, but I would never disown him or treat him different if he ever announced he was gay. I've known several parents who have said things like "oh, my kid would never be gay" or "I would send him/her to counseling to straighten him/her out". To me those comments are naive. I find it hard to beleive that a parent could not accept their child for this reason.
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Post by Enchantress on Oct 5, 2004 14:41:36 GMT -5
Homosexuality is against my religious beliefs. Having said that, I'd raise my child with my religious beliefs. If they chose to be homosexual, I can't really say what I would do. I don't think I'd go the whole "I'm taking you to a shrink to fix this" route. But I really don't know.
ETA that I would not stop loving them or disown them. I just think it would be a hard situation and as Erin said, I'd wonder why they chose that lifestyle.
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Post by Jana on Oct 5, 2004 14:50:45 GMT -5
If my child was gay I would love him or her no matter what. Their life and the way they live it is their choice and I would support them in how ever they decided to live that life.
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Post by Erin on Oct 5, 2004 15:42:34 GMT -5
Homosexuality is against my religious beliefs. If I had a child who was gay it would be very upsetting, the same way it would be if I had a child who chose to engage in any lifestyle I view as sinful. I would pray for them a lot, and I would probably experience a lot of guilt wondering why my child made that choice. I would not, however, disown them or stop loving them.
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Post by Ladybug on Oct 30, 2004 9:14:40 GMT -5
Homosexuality is against my religious beliefs. If I had a child who was gay it would be very upsetting, the same way it would be if I had a child who chose to engage in any lifestyle I view as sinful. I would pray for them a lot, and I would probably experience a lot of guilt wondering why my child made that choice. I would not, however, disown them or stop loving them. I agree with this.
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